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Getting Board Members to Agree

November 6, 2017 by Spokes For Nonprofits

Consensus. Harmony. Unity. These are the goals of every nonprofit board. Unfortunately, they are rarely part of their reality. So, how does a board leader honor every individual around the table while encouraging them all to move forward in agreement?

In his recent article for Fast Company, “This Is Why Your Passive-Aggressive Office Note Didn’t Work,” Shane Snow suggests that understanding each individual’s outer and inner expectations is the key to creating group agreement. Snow cites a framework presented in author Gretchen Rubin’s latest book, The Four Tendencies, that identifies different personalities and how best to empathize with and appeal to those personalities–rather than avoid them or fight them.

• Upholders will do anything to meet a work deadline (an outer expectation) and also their New Year’s resolution (an inner expectation). They’re self-starters and highly reliable, but they can be defensive and rigid.
• Questioners tend to be good at meeting their inner expectations, but they need to be convinced why to do something before doing it, this way they can decide for themselves whether it’s worth doing. They’re comfortable bucking the system but can suffer from analysis paralysis and get impatient with people who just accept things as they are.
• Obligers are motivated above all else by helping others and by following rules. They can be counted on as responsible but can have trouble imposing limits or saying “no.”
• Rebels are motivated by freedom of choice and self-expression. They don’t want to be told what to do; they want to decide what to do. They’re great at being independent, spontaneous, and creative but not at being disciplined.

Read his entire article here to learn more about your own personality type, better identify the personalities of your peers, and gain strategies to use this framework to create more true consensus in the board room, with your colleagues, and in your personal relationships, too!

The Secret to Successful Board Meetings?

June 28, 2017 by Spokes For Nonprofits

The Secret to Successful Board Meetings? Great Facilitation.

Think back to the last time someone invited you to sit on a nonprofit board. If you’re like most folks, the first thing that popped into your mind was something related to board meetings… how many board meetings do I have to attend, how long are they, will I be wasting my time…?

No one joins a board because they want to go to board meetings; folks join boards because they want to help make the organization’s mission a reality. But, here’s the catch:

Well-attended and well-facilitated board meetings are critical to the organization’s ability to achieve its goals.

So, now, think back to the last board meeting you attended. Did you leave the meeting feeling it achieved something valuable in pushing the organization towards its goals? Did you feel your time was well-spent? Did you walk out of the meeting with understanding and agreement on what actions were needed from your colleagues and you? Were you glad you attended and proud of your affiliation with the organization?

No? Not exactly? Do you relate to the cartoon above?

If so, there’s a good chance that your organization is making a few cardinal mistakes that sabotage the nearly 11 million meetings held in the US each day:

  1. Failing to design your meeting agenda for success – a task that begins at least a week before your meeting.
  2. Failing to properly prepare meeting participants by sharing your agenda and relevant information prior to the meeting.
  3. Failing to understand how groups make decisions. Not supporting the process required for the particular action/decision your group is considering.

The Right Way to Bring New CEO on Board

May 18, 2017 by Spokes For Nonprofits

Just hired a new CEO at your nonprofit? Now, the real Board work begins.

Spring is always a time of growth and re-birth in the natural world. It seems the same is true in our local nonprofit sector with many nonprofits transitioning from a retiring or exiting CEO to a new one, and many more preparing to hire the very first staff executive in their organization’s history.

 

Finding a new executive leader is always challenging for a nonprofit board. In fact, it may be the hardest task any nonprofit board must face. To start, the board faces the daunting task of managing the organization until a new leader can be found, which is then compounded by the additional stress and worrying of trying to find the “right” candidate. And the hard work doesn’t end there. The most critical period for a nonprofit’s success comes after the new CEO starts the job as the entire organization acclimates to its new leadership.

One third to one-half of new CEOs, whether they’re hired from outside or from within, fail within their first 18 months, according to some estimates. 

At Spokes, we’re constantly talking about how critical the role of a nonprofit board’s continuing support and guidance is in helping a new CEO be successful. The topic is really nothing new. What is new, however, is an article from Harvard Business Review, “After the Handshake“ by Dan Ciampa, which offers some fresh tips and insights.

  • Nonprofit boards must find and maintain an appropriate balance between being un-involed and over-involved. CEOs routinely report that they don’t get enough transition support from their directors. Boards cannot micromanage, but there is also a danger in being too remote.
  • Nonprofit boards must set clear expectations about how much communication they expect between board meetings or in which decisions or changes they want to play a larger role. Ciampa recommends that board members can start defining clear and appropriate expectations with the new CEO by asking the following questions:
  1. “What information do you need from the board to be able to do the best job you can?”
  2. “What behavior on the board’s part would best enable us to have a trusting relationship at board meetings, between them and in one-on-one conversations?”
  3. “From your experience during the search process and in your first meeting or two as CEO, what one thing about how the board operates would you change to make our relationship all it must be?”
  • Nonprofit boards must help a new CEO build his/her relationships with key organizational stakeholders – including each of the individual board members. Every new CEO will need some help navigating the new culture of your organization.
Ciampa explains that the CEO’s first 6 months or so is a time when nonprofit board members should expect to be meeting, talking and contributing more than they ordinarily do. Read his entire article here to learn more useful insights to help your board and new CEO successfully leap into a bright new future – together.

Four Steps To Prevent Stress

April 7, 2017 by Spokes For Nonprofits

Stress and burnout plague everyone in every sector. Nonprofit employees, however, seem to suffer especially. If we all spent five minutes jotting down the causes of our stress, we’d probably have fairly similar lists: emotionally draining work, constant urgency of needs, limited resources to do the work, low pay, not enough time in the day, etc. And, surprisingly, we’d all miss the only true cause of stress: rumination.

In his article, “Pressure Doesn’t Have to Turn into Stress,” published in the Harvard Business Review on March 16, 2017, Nicholas Petrie explains that the “causes” we would put on our list are actually not stresses but, rather, pressures. We create stress when we choose to react to pressures with rumination – the act of rethinking past or future events while attaching negative emotion to those thoughts.

Different folks can face the exact same pressures but experience very different levels of stress because of their individual reactions. For those who are interested in reducing their stress-levels, this is great news! Your stress-level can be entirely within your control with practice and discipline. Petrie offers the following four steps to help you:

Wake up and be present. Most rumination occurs when we are daydreaming or not focused on our current actions. Try some physical tricks like sitting up, clapping your hands or moving your body to bring you into the present. Get busy and re-engage with tasks at hand.

Focus on taking useful action. Petrie suggests the following exercise: Draw a circle on a page, and write down all of the things you can control or influence inside it and all of things you cannot outside if it. Remind yourself that you can care about externalities — your work, your team, your family — without worrying about them.

Put things in perspective. Petrie suggest three strategies for gaining a healthy perspective of your situation. One is a questioning exercise in which you ask yourself:  “How much will this matter in three years’ time?” and “What’s the worst that could happen?” and “How would I survive it?”.

Let go. Petrie admits that this is the hardest step to take. It has three required components: accept the situation, learn from the experience, and take appropriate action to move through and out of your situation.

Read Petrie’s entire article here and start a stress-free Spring tomorrow!

https://hbr.org/2017/03/pressure-doesnt-have-to-turn-into-stress

Nonprofit Leadership and Politics

March 24, 2017 by Spokes For Nonprofits

unity-1767663_1920At Spokes, we are having daily conversations with our nonprofit members about the political discourse that is permeating our professional and social interactions. Here’s what we’re learning:

  • Some nonprofits are struggling to properly care for their clients because they are using multiple or different names when seeking services. These clients are too afraid to use their real names and expose themselves to potential raids for suspected illegal immigrants – even clients who are in the United States legally.
  • Nonprofit leaders are feeling a need to create continuity plans (or disaster plans) out of a fear that their organizations may be targeted for an attack (arson, vandalism, or bullying) because they address issues that have become politically charged.
  • Nonprofits that exist to support women’s issues chose not to participate in International Women’s Day celebrations because doing so may align the organization with one political party and alienate donors and volunteers from the opposing political party.
  • Some volunteers and board members who want to support the nonprofits that address the issues that concern most are being turned away because their reputations/identities are deemed “too political.”
  • Large professional associations continually send nonprofit leaders surveys and articles asking us to identify how the new presidential administration is impeding our work and rallying us to “fight” against the administration to defend our causes.

Those who share these stories have asked us for help and guidance. We’ve identified 4 specific tips and want to share them with you, too:

First, re-frame the conversation. Our organizations face the very real threat of program interruptions from fires, earthquakes, dramatic federal budget cuts, economic recessions, political agendas, or poor assumptions about our organizational purpose every single day. We must always be diligent in our stewardship of our organizations – whether in defining a continuity plan or an advocacy policy. If we’ve been remiss in these management areas, the fault is our own and not the fault of a particular president or political party. Let’s not allow ourselves to become “victims” of the current political environment. Rather, let’s allow this turbulent time to motivate and re-engage us in our long-term planning and risk management responsibilities so that we can shore up our organizations to better weather the storms that will inevitably come to us from many different sources and directions. And, most importantly, let’s commit to maintaining our vigilance as we move forward.

Second, remember that all 501(c)3 organizations are legally required to remain non-partisan at all times. Charitable organizations are a “partisanship-free” zone. If a volunteer, board member, or donor wants to participate in our work to help us fulfill our missions, we owe it to the constituents we serve to allow them to do so. For whom an individual votes or which campaign sign may be in his/her front yard is a non-issue. If you’re worried that folks may try to align with your organization with an ulterior motive, you can protect your organization by establishing and consistently applying carefully defined policies and procedures around board member vetting, expectations for board member performance, gift acceptance policies, and donor recognition policies, to name a few. We must apply the same nondiscrimination practices we use for hiring our employees or serving our clients with our volunteers and donors. We need everyone’s participation in the nonprofit sector if we want our communities to be healthier and more vibrant. We have a moral obligation to invite participation and not build barriers to impede it.

Third, don’t make decisions out of fear. Rather, make decisions based on what your organization believes to be true as defined by your mission statement. Borrowing from the example above, if a nonprofit was founded on the belief that woman are entitled to equal rights and protections, then it must participate or promote International Women’s Day or participate in a local march. Not participating out of the fear that a donor may incorrectly view your participation as partisan and become disgruntled is unreasonable and unfair to your clients and that donor. If an activity is strongly aligned with your mission, it is worth doing. Allow your mission to be your guide and organizational conscious, not your fears. Not everyone will support your mission, and that’s OK. Those donors who do support your mission will respect what you do in service to it, even when those activities may be politicized by the media or others. Schedule some time at your next board and staff meetings to review your mission and values statements so that all members of your organization are empowered to communicate and demonstrate them effectively.

Lastly, let’s choose not to respond to perceived attacks on our work defensively. Taking a stance of “fighting back” only increases the amount of fighting that is occurring all around us. Instead, let’s work harder at communicating (listening, specifically) for greater understanding and agreement. We need to ask more questions to identify common ground rather than declaring to defend our territories. After all, a hunting enthusiast and a vegan can both support wildlife habitat conservation. A gun manufacturer and a pacifist can both agree on the need to support our veterans. And, a fast food restaurant owner and nutritionist can join forces to build more playgrounds to help children be more physically active. Let’s find our common denominators, join forces to realize our shared goals, and serve as a model for the rest of our national, state and local communities.

If you need a template for an advocacy policy, board contract or other policies, or if you would like consulting help to implement any of these strategies, please call Spokes at 805-547-2244 or [email protected].

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