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4 Steps to Better Networking

September 12, 2016 by Spokes For Nonprofits

Relationships, relationships, relationships. Every nonprofit organization relies on its external relationships to achieve its mission. Relationships with donors, relationships with clients, relationships with volunteers – they’re all paramount to our success. We are continually asking our board members and staff to network and create new relationships for our organizations. And, yet, even though we recognize that networking is a necessity for our nonprofits, many of us are overwhelmed by where to start or how to do it successfully.

Are you a confident and competent “networker”? Take this test to find out:

Quick! Fill in the missing letters:

W_ _ H
S H _ _ E R

S _ _ P

Which words did you spell?

If you spelled “wish,” “shaker,” or “step,” you are most likely very successful at networking. If you spelled “wash,” “shower,” or “soap,” however, you may have a negative perception of networking and struggle to make connections at social events. In fact, you may find professional networking to be – at best – distasteful and – at worst –  “morally dirty.”

If you are more of a “washer” than a “wisher,” don’t worry. In their article, Learn to Love Networking published in the May 2016 issue of the Harvard Business Review, authors Tiziana Casciaro, Francesco Gino, and Maryam Kouchaki offer four simple steps to help anyone learn to be excited about networking – and more effective:
  1. Focus on what you can learn through networking;
  2. Identify common interests you have with the folks you meet to create truly meaningful relationships;
  3. Give what you can to those you meet; and
  4. Network in order to serve others; a higher purpose will make your interactions more authentic and enjoyable.
Read the entire article here (https://hbr.org/2016/05/learn-to-love-networking) to learn more about each of these steps and make your next “mixer” your best one yet! Want a little practice? Be sure to join us for our next Spokes Happy Hub Hour on Tuesday, September 20, 2016 from 5:30pm-6:30pm at Spokes’ offices. It’s a fun, fast, free, and fulfilling way to meet other great nonprofit professionals, volunteers, consultants and donors just like you!
Click here to register today!

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